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In today's world many parents adore to control their adult children and even trying to arrange their personal lifes.

Therefore, many young people prefer not to consult with parents and to choose a spouse by themselves, but others do it.

Let's us consider what the advantages and disadvantages of this accute issue are.

On the one hand, parental adviceis very crucial.

Firstly, parents are wiser, they know life and want their children to be happy and loved.

Therefore, some young people prefer addressing the issues their future mates with their parents.

Secondly, parents can notice the foults of their future daughter in law or a son in law because young people see their parents through rose-coloured spectacles.

Becides, parents pay their attention to on education and the inner world of the future spouses of their children because appearances can be deceiving.

That's why, parental advice is very significant in choosing the right partner.

On the other hand, parents can ruin their children's life and add fuel to the flame.

It is true that all parents believe that their child is the best and deserves the best.

According to it, they try to choose a partner very carefully.

Majority of them consider that financial secutity is of primary importance for marital success.

That's why, they do not pay attention to the feelings of their children to a lower status to a candidate and take up a firm attitude.

However, I also agree that young people who do not consult with their parents and only after getting married they realized that in their family there is mutual misunderstanding.

They hurry into marriage not to weight up all the pros and cons together with their parents.

In conclusion, I want to say that young couple should introduce their parents to each other and have family dinners to their parents looked at each other and find a common language with the mate of a daughter or a son.

Young people should hear parental advice but as the saying goes "trust but verify".