When the subject is parenting one of the most controversial aspect of discussion it is for much and what the parents should teach to their sons.
In my opinion, parents should be apart from their sons as soon as possible.
The history has proofed that the family institution brought our society to the level of development the we are today.
According to Freud, our society was built when the men created the rule of prohibition of incest.
The human kind had achieved such development that family is no longer need.
The psychoanalyze reveals that family is a fundamental stone to a person, however it can also harm her for a lifetime.
A traumatized kid will grown-up as a problematic adult.
The state should take guard of the kids in early ages before they start creating feelings about their parents.
In this way, we can create powerful kids, which can grow into a stable man who does not care about oedipal conflicts.
My idea is not original, the Greek philosopher Plato has suggested something similar to that in his famous book 'The Republic'.
Moreover, this is a natural step of the evolution.
Creatures who are not attached to feelings are more able to succeed in the nature of the struggle rather than big crying babies.
If parents want the best for the kids, they might want let the word teach them the most of the lessons.
I am not a parent, so maybe it is easier to me say that, I believe in practice would be tough let a loved one live far from you, specially your own son.