Hi Alberto,
You probably remember this girl who I spoke to you about, after I started to date her we ended up falling in love each other.
We have now been in a relationship for two years and to be honest I can’t imagine my life without her, I love her so much we have too many things in common.
For the last six months we have started to live together and we do almost everything together we have a membership to the same gym, we spend all our spare time together going to the restaurant, cinema, concert, theatre…
Our relationship was perfect until I decided to go out on a week-end with some friends, I just wanted to see the NFL game in London which I watch every year… I mean there was nothing wrong with that it’s just a foot-ball game but she did not want me to go.
I did not want to get in conflict with her so I eventually gave in to her demand but I was very upset to miss this game.
The thing is after that she has kept on banning me from doing almost everything, she became extremely possessive with me.
I really love her she is very nice, elegant and intelligent.
I love being with her she is a really affectionate and gentle person.
However she is too possessive, jealous and even paranoid sometimes.
I tried to talk to her about her over-controlling behaviour but she don’t want to change at all, she told me that I have to choose between her and my friends even though I don’t see my friends a lot.
I don’t think I will be able to handle this situation still for a long time it’s like being in prison but I don’t want to lose her as well, so I really need your advice on this issue.
(thanks for the correction guys)