Nowadays we can encounter the international marriages more and more often.
This is an effect of ease of crossing borders, particularly European Union’s members.
Many people think that such unions will always have problems due to the barriers.
I share their opinion, I believe native inhabitants are better candidates to the partnership.
Firstly, the visitors can have a problem with a foreign language, the customs, food, dress and other aspects of unknown culture.
It might be hard to deal with, especially when your cultures and rules vary a lot.
For example, if you someone is living outside his country permanently he will not be able to see his family very often.
Moreover, his children will see their grandparents very little.
And parents could not expect help from them, for example with care of grandchildren.
Furthermore parents can have different views about bringing up their children, because they were used to various rules and behaviours in their native lands.
Children will not have a clear pattern of conduct.
Provided that two people are in love, this beautiful feeling should be cared for, because it is the most important value.
If they enjoy their company and want to spend the rest of their life together, no one should interfere with their happiness.
To sum up, people from different countries who get married have to struggle with many things but I do not think this is something insurmountable.
Everyone deserves to be happy and it should seek.
June 2013
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