Hello everybody.
My name is German.
I'm inhabitant of Kharkiv.
I study at university KhAI (Kharkiv aerospace institution).
So I would like to tell you about my Family.
And share with you my ideals of perfect family.
So, my family isn't huge.
I haven't any siblings.
It is family of 3.
Me, my mother and my father.
I'm just a student.
I'm going to work this summer.
I have finished the first course of my studying that year.
Study to be translater.
From Russian into English and reverse.
My mather is hairdresser.
She has her own salon (beauty salon).
She works all day long.
My parents are breadmakers both.
Because it is essential.
It is very difficult to live in our world. Crisis.
My father is an engineer.
He works in the company which drills ground and get gas.
He wakes up very early with cocks.
And comes home very late.
We are trying to have no misunderstandings and have no fighting.
Because we help each other.
Trying to solve our problems.
Trying to get a harmony.
I do my best at home.
Help them as I can.
Because family is the most important in the life.
Because nobody takes care of you except your parents.
Nobody help you except of them.
There is no perfect family in the univers.
Because everybody has own advantages and disadvantages.
I didn't say that we have a harmony.
We try to get it.
We have a lot of problems and trying to solve it.
I know not so much about marriage traditions.
Actually i know nothing.
Shame on me))
There are four kinds of relations in family.
It is custody, dictation, non-interference, cooperation.
For the first, it is dictation.
Method like dictation, I think it is the worst method of relationship.
Because if you dictate to your child what him to do his inside properties like initiative, independence, dignity, self confidence can disappear.
And childre will be like a body without own sense and thoughts. Custody.
But in the case of custody children can become lazy, because parents don't give the any errands to do.
Trying to satisfact their child.
And then their children grew up without any opportunity to work.
To live in Sociality.
Can't adapt to the environment.
Non-interference.
I look at all methods from the pessimistic side.
But this one is nice. Why?
Because if you don't help your child it will solve its problem without any help.
And can become a self-confident member of Society. Cooperation. Is good too.
Because all the members help each other.
And trying to get a harmony.
Like mine family.
Ok that's all i think. Enough.
Thank you for correction.
June 2013
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