I believe everyone must have tought about something in their life like; " If I gave it a shot, everything could be much more different.".
But in my situation it is so frequent because of my prejudgemental temperament.
I always miss oppurtunities saying like; "This job is too good for me, I dont have the required qualifications." or " She is not going to accept it, why bother asking.".
Even though I am capable of doing it, I step back and watch someone, who is not better than me, take the oppurtunity out of my hands.
At first I wasn't making a big deal about it, saying as I would, one way or another, get these oppurtunities again.
But the point is not getting a second or third oppurtunitity or chance, it is about turning yourself into someone who is afraid of taking chances by behaving as I mentioned.
Because, in the end you will never take them even though they come to you one after another.
The bottom line is no matter how much chances you get, you cant beat this habit unless you start to take them.
September 2013
赶紧投票吧！ 