I wonder

If I can write a comment, when I check your profile you ask for NATIVE english speakers right, so you put a limit of the people who could contact you so I guess you assume your comment is towards only english speakers am I right?nonetheless you state it like it was for everybodys and so here we have a problem.Personnally I can answer you a simple fact, most of foreing languages learners in universitites are women and in websites too, the proportion is between 95%(my french university amphi lessons) to grossly 66.6% girls the rest boys second point :talking to a girl doesn't always mean to flirt with her (otherwise you have a problem but I don't think it is the case) third point:some people, obviously more guys than girls are here for flirting also(mind the photos they put on their profile) fourth point:you can always say no, no offence intended.

personnaly I do face to face exchange over Paris and over skype and most of the time girls are far more talkative and there are more girls willing to exchange anyway but there also girls who only wants to speak to girls :i respect that but we are no integrist muslim society and as far as I am concern a woman married or not is free to talk to whoever she wants without asking permission about girls being annoyed by guys , those guys should be neutralized I agree with you.

have a good day