Emendata

It is sometimes argued that it should be more rational if parents would limit their kid’s right to make independent decisions to prevent them of being selfish.

However, there are those who suppose that such action is an unreasonable restriction of freedom.

This essay supports the later view because it is obvious that such kind of limitation will effect badly on social skills of a child in the future.

Firstly, this essay will discuss the supposedly roots why youngster become egoists, secondly, it will analyze the reasons why kids should obtain rights to choose.

There is an opinion that the main part of those who became an egoists due to lack of necessary parents control in the past.

Unfortunately, little do people realize that the situation is diametrically opposite and it is the lack of freedom of choice that makes the individual jealously guard their powers.

It is worth noting that this ultimately leads to the fact that the child grows up his eccentric.

For example, it has been reported by the World Association of Psychologists that such sort of education is not only useless as a method of preventing egoism, but also is a main reason of it’s appearance.

On the other hand, it is obvious that absence of the ability to make own decisions, a child can grow up dependent with low social skills.

Moreover, most psychologists consider this kind of the parent’s behavior as one of the types of violence against the child.

So, it is not surprisingly that, for instance, according to the report of the same organization, only 8 percent of young respondents expressed a desire to treat their future children the same way as their own parents did.

In conclusion, taking into account all written above, I am firmly convinced that any child should be treated as grown-up person and no unreasonable restrictions are allowed.

This is because neither is it believed that this could prevent selfishness in kids, nor do it could be trusted that this way of education is safe.